Refuse is the first step

The other day, I did some light shopping for craft supplies for a project. We went to 2 different stores and bought 2-3 items per store. At each store, it was assumed that I would want a bag. I wasn’t even asked. But, I’ve been in the habit of refusing bags for many years now, so I was able to catch the cashier each time before she gave it to me. 


Why do we need to have a bag for one or a small number of items? One of the easiest things you can do to reduce single-use plastic waste is to refuse a bag. Simply say, “no bag, please” or “I don’t need a bag.” I have yet to encounter someone who insists that I take it.


Last weekend, while I was away, I was in a small store that sells bulk goods for really great prices. I thought I was only getting a few items, but when I got to the register, my arms were stacked full and in hindsight, I was wishing I had gotten a small basket. Since I was travelling, I had forgotten my reusable bags. This gave me an opportunity to be a bit humorous, so I said to the cashier, I probably need a bag, but I don’t want one. She chuckled and as I left the store with my arms full of bags of sunflower seeds and a jar honey, I was thankful that I passed on the bag. I really didn’t need one after all.


Refuse is the word that needs to come before Reduce, Reuse, Recycle.


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As a teenager, I was encouraged to go to college, find a career and go out into the world to make a difference. For many years, I had no plans to have children because I had one focus - my career.  

As I neared the age of 30, I started thinking about what I wanted my life to look like in the future. Where did I want to be in 20 years and what did I want my life to look like. That's when I felt a pull at my heart to have children. 

I continued to work in my career while my kids were infants and toddlers. It wasn't until they were both in school that I felt a huge tug to stay at home. But, I had worked so hard to go to school, spent so much money and now I was thinking of throwing it all away? What would people think? Was the money and education a waste? 

I remember having more days at work when I wanted to be home than days at home when I wanted to be at work.  And, that's when I knew things had to change. It didn't happen overnight. We put together a plan so that we would be able to live comfortably on a single income and then we moved forward with that plan.

Once I left my job, I experienced a full-on identity crisis. No longer did I have my career to define me. Now, I had to figure out who I was. It was challenging, and I dove into different projects and small jobs. I was looking for fulfillment in motherhood...and something else. 

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